The secret to be trusted and respected


In July 1969, Neil Armstrong and Buzz Aldrin were descending towards the Moon.

Then their computer started displaying alarms.

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An excellent moment to discover that a number means absolutely nothing to you.

Imagine being in Mission Control.

Two men approaching the lunar surface.

An alarming computer.

And someone asking whether they should continue.

Perhaps you could open with:

“Thank you. That’s a very interesting question.”

Fortunately, NASA had Jack Garman supporting guidance officer Steve Bales.

Garman had prepared a list of the computer alarms.

He recognised the problem: the guidance computer was temporarily overloaded.

The landing could continue.

That assessment reached the astronauts.

They landed.

Preparation had become a clear answer at the moment somebody needed one.

Now.

Your next Board meeting probably won’t involve landing on the Moon.

But, someone will ask.

“Can we sign this?”

And you know the subject.

You’ve done the work.

You’ve found the problem.

Then you start talking.

“Well… there are several considerations…”

Or…

“Obviously, it depends…”

By the time you reach your recommendation, someone else has offered one.

Louder.

Simpler.

Congratulations.

You did the analysis.

They got the authority.

This is one of the more irritating features of professional life.

Your expertise needs to survive the journey from your brain to the meeting table…

Look.

If this is familiar to you, I recommend you to click below.

In THE ROOM: Confidence Creates Credibility in High Stakes Meetings, I explore a skill that matters when your advice needs to carry weight.

You’ll also find this lesson, along with many others, inside The Room.

Because knowing the answer is useful.

Getting the room to understand and trust it is rather important too.

Use this information at your own risk.

P.S. If your recommendation requires seventeen slides before anyone can find it, put it on slide one. You can still keep the other sixteen. I know you’re attached to them.

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